When is diamond jewelry appropriate

Receiving diamond jewelry is a very memorable event in a woman's life. If you are the one giving her this experience you want to be sure it is a positive one! By asking yourself a few key questions you can be sure the gift giving experience is the one you are looking to achieve.

1. Do you know if she likes diamonds?

Strange as it may seem... some women just don't like diamonds. Perhaps they don't see themselves as the type of woman who wears diamonds or they feel the money is better spent elsewhere. If she hasn't flat out told you her feelings about diamonds, comment on diamonds her friends or relatives are wearing, or even on commercials while watching tv. Lucky for you, the largest percentage of women do still love diamonds and your bet is fairly safe. As a side note, she may not appreciate a diamond if she can not wear it to work due to safety precautions.

2. Are you trying to express feelings of love?

Since the early 1900's diamonds have been known as an expression of undying love. Have you reached the point in your relationship where love is freely expressed? If so, that's a major hurdle or you will be taking a big risk presenting her with diamonds. If you are NOT trying to express feelings of love, it would be a good idea to switch to another gift. If you prefer jewelry, think about giving a birth stone or a piece of jewelry without a gemstone in it.

3. Is the gift giving occasion appropriate?

Diamonds are typically given as gifts for birthdays, anniversaries, Christmas, Valentine's Day, and for achievements. Once you've decided to give a diamond gift, the next decision is the type of diamond. Most importantly, unless your intent is engagement, do not give a diamond solitaire ring or any ring that resembles an engagement or wedding anniversary ring. In fact, if you are getting to the point in a relationship when an engagement ring could be expected, its best to stay away from any jewelry that comes in a box similar to a ring box. This could be earrings so be wary. A great choice is a diamond bracelet or pendant.

Good luck with your jewelry purchase and creating a memorable gift giving experience. Be sure to price shop and above all, save your receipt and verify the store's return policy!